Frequently Asked Questions
How far along in my pregnancy should I contact you?
Right now. The sooner the better! You won’t regret starting your birth prep early. You might regret leaving it till later! If you’re looking for doula support, contact me ASAP since I only take a maximum of 2 births per month.
What area do you service?
I am based in Lemon Tree Passage in Port Stephens. My goal is to provide GentleBirth childbirth education workshops at central locations through the Hunter region to make them accessible to as many families as possible. I’m also considering taking them online to be accessible by parents throughout Australia.
As a doula, while I can go anywhere in the Hunter region, when it comes to doula services I thinks the closer you live to your doula the better! As a guideline, I suggests trying to find a doula within a maximum of half to one hour’s drive of where you live or will give birth. With this in mind, I focus on supporting women in Port Stephens and northern Newcastle. If you are further away, feel free to reach out anyway. If I have availability I’ll let you know, or I can put you in touch with other doulas.
What is a birth doula?
A birth doula is there to support the mother physically and emotionally every step of the way, getting to know her during the pregnancy and discussing her birth goals. When it comes to the birth, the doula is there to remind her that she is ready for this and she can do it. Yes, those moments of self-doubt can come, and having someone there who believes in you makes all the difference! A doula can suggest comfort measures and implement them or support the partner to implement them, and so much more. She is not a medical figure, nor does she make any decisions for the family, but she helps them to maintain their desired approach and makes space for them to live those unforgettable moments to the fullest.
But I want to have my partner with me! Does that mean I can’t have a doula?
Your doula doesn’t replace your partner! She allows your partner to be able to focus on staying close to you, while she takes care of setting up the environment, making sure you’re both as comfortable as possible, and being there to reassure and cheer on. Not to mention supporting you in advocating for your preferences with medical staff. And so much more. What’s not to love?!